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Sunday, November 27, 2011 | 0 Comments


salam..im back for good no worries k..

gile panjang tajuk entry..im not trying to be a philosopher..but..take this as an advice..

Here it goes..

i have no idea why there are some peoples out there so difficult to acknowledged others..

bagi saya..kat mana pon kite berada.kita mesti kena ingat..at least..jaga sensitivity orang lain yang berada disekeliling kita..if can..try not to hurt people..whatever u do..please make sure that..u dont hurt others feelings..Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

in short..saya xfaham beberapa orang manusia yang kadang2 suka sangat sakitkan hati orang lain.seboleh bolehnye nak jugak orang tu rase terluka..and maybe mungkin kadang2 kita tak realized apa yang kite tuturkan itu..mengguris hati org lain..

guys..i give u examples..
i do hope whoever you are..
please do appreciate others..

depan orang yang xde anak..

kalau boleh kat depan orang kawen yang xde anak..xperlu nak duk cerita pasal anak2 kat depan die..ni kadang2..kite jumpa kawan lama kat reunion ke....pastu semuanya dah ade anak..then duk bercerita tentang anak..comelnye..bestnye..apa2 jelah ..sedangkan dalam ramai2 tu..ade yang xde anak..
so..cuba bayangkan apa perasaan org tu?
mesti terasa dan sedih kn?
try not to make others sad becoz of us..

kat depan orang miskin

kalau boleh jgn lah kite duk syok cerita tentang kereta yg kite pakai..rumah besar kite..bla bla..pastu beli barang grand2 then cerita/tunjuk kat kawan yg xde duit..yg tak de pape..mesti die kecik hati kn??

kadang2 kite sebenarnya tak perasan..dlm ramai2 kwn kite tu..ade yg tak berduit..xde kereta..xde barang branded2..then kite duk borak mcm2 tentang kekayaan ni..tentang kereta la ..apa lah..what for?

look at your friend..at least..pity her/him..
maybe die tak tunjuk depan kite die terasa..tp dalam hati?
bila kita duk selalu story dengan dia mcm tu..dia mesti rasa rendah diri..dan dia mesti akan rasa xsetaraf kawan ngn kita..so..mind ur words k.

kat depan orang yang kurang cantik

mentang-mentanglah kita rase kite cun daripada bidadari.janganlah kite duk ghairah cerita kat diaramai orang suka kite..org ni minat kita..orang ni gilakan kita..sedangkan kwn kite yg kurang cntik tu xde orang nak pon..mesti senyap2 dlm hati..die akan rase rendah diri..
kalau kita rasa kita cntik...kulit kita cantik..janganlah kite duk desak2 kawan kite yang mukanya penuh berjerawat..cntik x aku ari ni?ko rase sesuai x bedak ni ngn aku..eh kawan bf aku cakap kulit muka aku cantik..mybe kite just nak express apa yg kita rasa..but hello..
we are human friend..look at your friend and dont hurt her feeling..cant u?

saya pernah alami bila dulu..muke saya ade banyak jerawat..then ade kawan saya yg kulitnye mulus..asyik duk bandingkan kulit muke dia ngn saya..padahal saya tahu die xsengaja..tapi deep down in my heart..saya rasa rendah diri sgt..

depan orang kurang pandai..
kalau kite rasa kite ni pandai..masuk university.study oversea..keje best2..then kite jumpa kawan sekolah kite kejenye penoreh ke..janganlah kita duk cerite sgt tentang kerja kite..tentang bestnye kite kat oversea ke apa..sbb once kita bercerita..kita akan buat dia rase sedih even dia xcakap kat kita..kadang2 dengan bercerita mcm tu..kita buat die segan ngn kita..

saya pernah jugak..ada kawan yang sgt fluent in English..selalu duk cerita dekat saya how good her english..selalu cerita seolah2 kalau kite xtahu english ni..seolah2 kita ni bangang giler..so time tu saya rase rendah diri sgt sebab english saya ni broken giler..saya selalu ilang confident bila berhadapan dengan spesis2 camni..

so what if u are some superterror english user..a country's top scorer or a billionaire when u do not even know how to be nice to people..when u do not know how to be a good human to another human being??

so conclusionnye..
apabila kite berhadapan dengan orang yang x sama taraf ngn kita..or dengan orang yang tak seperti kita..
please do mind your words..
they are human being too..
they also have feeling..
at least..
appreciate them as a human being
:)

i can honestly say i really hate the one who always never knew how to appreciate and respect others feelings..

p/s: treat people on how u want to be treated.

why people hate you??

Sunday, November 27, 2011 | 0 Comments

ONLY two reason why people hate you..

they hate you because they wanna be YOU
or
they hate you because you are not like them..

sometimes..people hate you because they dont have what do u have..so actually..they dont hate you..they just wanna be like u but they cant..
maybe korang cantik..maybe korang pandai..or maybe korang xcantik tapi pandai, so they hate you because diorang nak jadik macam u..nak cantik.nak pandai nak baik mcm u..so..bile die tiada unsur2 tersebut..dia rasa cemburu..then bila dia cemburu..lama2 akan berubah kepada benci..
then at last..bila ada org tanya..dia akan jawab..

aku hate this girl
why?

sebab dia kerek ah..sebab dia berlagak ah..sebab dia sombong ah..
in fact..orang yang dibenci tu xtahu apa2 pon..
u label them
u put the word kerek.sombong, berlagak.
actually..u obviously hate them because you wanna be like them..

so..dont hate people just because you are not like them..

and if u feel hurt when people hate u..assuming that they want to have what do u have..so share a lil bit.. P


and ada jugak..that person xcun..xpandai..xcantik..but everybody like her..everybody adore her sedangkan yg si cantik, si pandai and si kaya tu..xde pon ramai2 nak suka and adore dia..so sure they will hate you..then dia akan create satu story untuk make people hate you..why?because they wanna be like you..they wanna be humble like you but they cant..they wanna be as nice as u but they cant..they think that they are so perfect to deserve to be liked like you but they failed..

remember this..when people hate you..just pay them no mind..sometimes..The people who hate successful people are usually, unsuccessful..and etc..so on and so forth..kadang2 kite rasa down sgt..kite akn rasa kite ni teruk..apa salah aku?why the hate me?? so..my advice is..If you become successful and any people decide to hate you, it's because of their own fears, not because you have suddenly become a 'bad person'. ..think positive.


and another reason why people hate you because you are not like them..
just because u dont agree with them..they hate you.
just because u are not wearing like them..not eat what they eat..not so great like them..they hate you..
sometimes dia rasa dia lemah lembut..dia soft spoken..so dia benci korang just kerana korang kasar.korang cakap main lepas je..so..they want u to be them..they hate you when they judge you from their perspective..
eh aku xsuka orang yang kasar..aku xsuka la orang yang mcm ni..aku xsuka la orang yang tulis mcm ni..(padahal dlm hati diorang cakap..dia sepatutnye tiru mcm aku..die sepatutnye lemah lembut mcm aku..dia sepatutnnye tulis mcm aku..dia sepatutnye pakai mcm aku)

so for me..
dont hate somebody when they are not like you..let them be in their way..
it is a worse things to hate people just because they are not that great as you..
it is a worse things to hate people just because they dont agree with u..

then..
when people hate you just because you are not like them..
just let them be..dont feel bad..
mind this..
we do not live to please everyone!!!
just stand for what you are believe is good for you..dont bother about haters..
coz if they hate you because you are not LIKE them..
prove to them that EVEN you are not like them..
u are BETTER then them..

bagi saya..
saya ade prinsip saya sendiri..

I DONT NEED TO PRETEND JUST TO PLEASE ANYBODY..
i dont care what other may think about me..because I want to live my life the way I want..
if i dont agree with someone..it is because i have a strong reason behind it..i dont hate people for no reason..i dont hate people just because of this two shit reasons!!

i always remind myself that life is too short to wasting your time by hating people..so..i will try as hard as i can not to hate everyone..

ya..
it is true..When some hurt your dignity, it hurts, but I always tell myself that I am who I am ... NO matter what others say...

so:
live with peace.
that was from my perspective....what about you guys?

p/s: sorry for my grammatical error..sorry malas nak re-check hahaha..:)

thanks for reading this..

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